Wedding ring worn on the fourth finger? Why?

I read this from this blog and I find it very interesting. I've always wondered why the wedding ring is worn on the fourth finger....and this kinda explain it all.......

Try out this simple finger experiment and follow the steps below to discover the answer to this perennial question. It's really a miracle! I was amazed when I first tried out this simple finger experiment which was written in Chinese. Below are the steps which I have translated in English for easier reading. Have fun trying this out!

1. Put your palms together and bend in your middle finger as shown in the picture below. Rest the remaining four fingers on their fingertips.



2. Take note that during this experiment, only one pair of fingertips should be separate at any one time. In this experiment, the middle finger represents yourself.

3. Now, separate your thumbs from one another. The thumbs represent our parents. The fact that our thumbs could separate from one another represents that our parents will leave us one day inevitably.

4. Next, join your thumbs together again and separate your second fingers. The second fingers represent our siblings. When our siblings grow up and set up their own families, they too, will leave us one day.

5. Now, join your second fingers together again and separate your little fingers. The little fingers represent our children. When our children will grow up, they will eventually lead their own lives and leave us too.

6. Nonetheless, join your little fingers and try to separate your fourth fingers. You will be surprised that this pair of fingers will not separate. The fourth fingers represent husband and wife. Through thick and thin, your spouse and life partner will always be the one who sticks with you.It's so touching isn't it?


Another question......left or right finger??....hmmmm

oh ooooo.....

i might have fallen for another.

is this right?

what is going on with my life now?

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you've once again disappoint me.
you let me down when i entrust you with something that is important to me.
but i should have known better.

someone came along...

i enjoyed the simple things i do with him.
he's caring enough to be there for me when all i wanted was you.
he was there when you're the one i needed.

he's usually around when you put me in shitty situations

mixed emotions.

i'm lost yet again.

i do not understand you.

and i do not understand my feelings right now.

he makes me smile.

but he's not you.

he makes me feel special.

but he's not you.

he teases me.

but he's not you.

he pampers me.

but he's not you.

they say all men are the same.

but younger guys too?

should i look elsewhere...

should i be with another?

i'm lost, yet again...

it was nice

after the movies that day, we spoke.
you shared with me your concerns and your plans for us in the future.
i truly appreciate that.
there's so many things for us to work on.
we'll try our very best.
we should not falter.
i love you, dear.
i'll always do.

hurting

my head's hurting n i can't think straight.
i said a stupid suggestion n it lead to all these.
i was stupid.
i was neglected.
i wanted your attention.
that is all that i wanted.
it all came out differently.
i am stupid like that.
i dont know half the things i do anymore.
i'm going out of my mind.
i'm missing you already........

truly difficult

i just feel neglected!

you talked about everything under the sun except abt US.

you can go on with the conversation without me participating in it.

i need you.

i need to be with you.

i love you.

i want us.

but it's just me isnt it.

6 yrs on and i still feel neglected.

am i supposed to walk away for the second time?

walk away and never look back.........

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@nayle

"....25 years and my life is still
I'm trying to get up that great big hill of hope
For a destination
I realized quickly when I knew I should that the world was made up of
this brotherhood of man
For whatever that means
And so I cry sometimes when I'm lying in bed
Just to get it all out what's in my head
And I am feeling a little peculiar
And so I wake in the morning and I step outside
And I take a deep breath
And I get real high
And I scream from the top of my lungs
What's goin' on
And I say, hey hey hey hey
I say hey, what's going on?
And I say, hey hey hey hey
I say hey, what's going on?
And I try, oh my God do I try
I try all the time in this institution
And I pray, oh my God do I pray
I pray every single day for a revolution
25 years and my life is still
I'm trying to get up that great big hill of hope
For a destination..."